Top 5 ways to spice up your sex life
At the beginning of a relationship, there is always a sense of anticipation, passion, and fire. However, it often happens that over time, the passion fades, and the intimate life becomes dull and monotonous. But everything can be changed! Rabbit Hall has found the best ways for you to spice up your sex life and bring back the former passion in your relationship.
Change the environment
Sex becomes routine when it always happens in the same place. Simply changing the usual spot can make everything appear in a new light. Start by exploring your apartment: try sex in the bathtub, in the kitchen, on the windowsill, or on the floor. Then you can step out of your comfort zone: try sex in the car, in a fitting room, or in nature.
Changing the environment creates a sense of excitement, and new places can trigger an adrenaline rush and intensify emotions.
Use sex toys
Sex toys help intensify sensations and bring variety into intimate life. It’s best to choose them together. Fortunately, today’s selection is very wide: vibrators and dildos for her, masturbators and erection rings for him, as well as nipple clamps, anal plugs, whips, floggers, and much more.
If you and your partner are complete newbies and have never been to a sex shop, start with harmless accessories: an eye mask, edible lingerie, or lubricant, body paint. Discover your desires and your body, gradually adding to your collection of sex toys.
Try Sexting
Foreplay is a very important part of sex. And it usually becomes monotonous in long-term relationships too. An open conversation with (or without) the exchange of erotic photos, that is, sexting, is one way to create a new kind of foreplay and really heat things up before the actual sex.
“I miss your penis so much,” “I’m wet down there when I think of you,” “I still remember how you made me orgasm last time,” “I want your penis inside me again” – use one of these messages and send it to your partner. If you want to write something of your own – don’t limit your imagination! He will definitely like it.
Try Role-Playing games
We all love to fantasize, and men are no exception. Role-playing games help turn fantasies into reality and, of course, bring variety to your intimate life. There are many role-playing games, so it’s important to understand what exactly you and your partner like and which role you would like to play: a strict teacher and student, nurse and patient, rebel and policeman. Use your imagination!
In role-playing games, just like in others, there are rules to keep in mind:
- The game should not be spontaneous; it needs preparation: write or find a script on the internet, buy costumes, prepare props;
- Stay in costume throughout the game to remain in character. Therefore, choose clothes that are comfortable for you;
- Don’t forget to discuss the rules and the script with your partner, outlining what is allowed and what is forbidden.
Play erotic board games
Don’t want to use your imagination – no problem, try 18+ board games. You can draw cards from a deck that suggest new positions or give erotic tasks you must complete. Want to get to know your partner better? Try playing “Truth or Dare” with an erotic twist. This will not only help you uncover all your hidden desires, relax, and realize what you’ve long dreamed of but also bring you closer together.
Try erotic massage
Some couples use light body massage as part of foreplay before sex. But you can (and should) try erotic massage as a standalone act of love. Erotic massage is a set of magical techniques aimed at creating new sexual sensations and emotions in your partner and allows a woman to bring him to orgasm and pleasure in a completely new way!