How to perform an erotic massage for men? Step-by-Step
Do you want to give your partner an unforgettable experience that will deepen your mutual intimacy? An erotic massage might be exactly what you’re looking for—gentle touches, a calm atmosphere, and sensual techniques can work wonders. This guide will take you through the preparation and each step to ensure the experience is enjoyable and exciting for both partners.
How to prepare?
Atmosphere is the key to success. Creating a comfortable, calm, and pleasant environment will help your partner fully relax and enjoy every moment. Here are the basic preparation steps:
- Lighting: Dim the lights so they are pleasantly soft and warm. Try using red or orange light by, for example, covering a lamp with a scarf, or place candles around the room to create an intimate and sensual ambiance.
- Music: Choose relaxing music without lyrics, such as soft jazz, ambient, or lounge tracks. Music not only sets the mood but also helps both partners get in sync with the experience.
- Fragrance: Aromatherapy lamps or diffusers with essential oils like lavender, ylang-ylang, sandalwood, or rose add a pleasant scent and help with relaxation.
- Oil: Use natural massage oils, ideally plant-based ones that are non-allergenic and gentle on the skin. Coconut or almond oil works great as they absorb easily and leave no greasy residue.
- Comfort: Prepare a comfortable place for the massage with soft pillows, towels, and blankets. You can even use silk sheets for a luxurious feel. It’s important that your partner has a comfortable position that allows for relaxation.
- Temperature: Ensure the room is warm enough to prevent your partner from feeling cold. A relaxed body is more at ease when it feels warm.
Erotic massage techniques that will drive any man crazy
Breast massage
This technique adds energy and sensuality to the massage. Use plenty of oil on your breasts and your partner’s body. Start with gentle gliding movements of your breasts on his chest, back, legs, and buttocks. You can also massage his intimate areas using soft circular motions or an infinity symbol—your partner will be enchanted.
Body-to-Body massage
The body-to-body massage, known as “body to body,” is a technique where you massage with your entire body. It’s ideal to use nuru gel made from seaweed, which has excellent glide properties. Lay yourself on top of your partner and use not only your chest but also your buttocks, stomach, and thighs. The body-to-body massage creates a sense of closeness and strong intimacy.
For more information on this technique, see our guide Body-to-Body Massage.
Lingam Massage
Start the lingam massage by relaxing the entire body. Massage the neck, back, chest, feet, and thighs before moving to the sensitive areas. Try the “Falling Leaf” technique, where you hold the penis below the glans with one hand and gently cover the tip with the other. Slowly make spiral movements downwards and observe your partner’s reactions.
Find more information about the lingam massage here.
How to learn to give an erotic massage for men?
An erotic massage is an art that requires some practice, but the result can be an unforgettable experience. Here are some tips on how to master erotic massage:
- Create a relaxed and sensual atmosphere—the right setting has a significant impact on the overall experience.
- Pay attention to sensitive zones—areas like the neck, chest, back, and thighs are key to pleasure.
- Master massage techniques—smooth movements and gentle pressure work wonders. Proceed slowly and adjust techniques according to your partner’s responses.
- Include sensual accessories—besides oils and gels, you can use a hot towel to relax the muscles and intensify the experience.
- Finish with a relaxing massage—slow strokes across the entire body are a great way to end the evening in a relaxed and pleasant mood.